You did not arrive here by accident. You are seeking expertise that truly understands the complex dynamics of high-conflict divorce, betrayal trauma, and the strategic warfare often waged by narcissistic and manipulative opponents in family court.
If you need more than traditional divorce coaching — if your case involves intense conflict, narcissistic abuse, international custody disputes, or high-profile litigation — then you deserve a forensic, judicial certified, trauma-informed legal strategist who brings deep expertise in psychology and courtroom dynamics.
I bring over a decade of experience helping clients like you shape the narrative, protect their wellbeing, and build airtight cases. I am your ally for navigating the brutal battlefield of family court with clarity, authority, and unwavering support.
When Divorce Feels Like Warfare: Navigate Complex Separation, Custody Battles & Post-Divorce Challenges with Confidence, Strategy, and Resilience
Expert-Level High-Conflict Divorce & Separation Strategic Consulting
High-conflict divorces involving narcissistic manipulation, deceptive sexuality trauma, coercive control, and ongoing abuse require specialized clinical knowledge and legal strategy that far exceeds typical coaching.
The Challenge You Face
- The psychological profiles and tactics of narcissists and high-conflict opponents
- How to present yourself consistently under pressure in court and depositions
- How trauma impacts your capacity to communicate clearly and effectively
- How to document and counteract manipulative and gaslighting behaviors
- The legal nuances of custody, support, and visitation complications including international cases
Unmatched Expertise, Strategy & Support
- Deceptive Sexuality & Trauma Treatment (DSTT) - Dr. Omar Minwalla
- Certified Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician - Dr. Ramani Durvasula
- Coercive Control training - Dr. Christine Cocchiola
- Certified Court-Appointed JDR & Circuit Domestic Violence & Trauma-Informed Mediator
- Certified Family Law Recommending Mediator
- Associate member of the American Bar Association Family Law Section
- Advanced practitioner of somatic and trauma-informed approaches integrating mind and body healing
- Contributor to leading national DV and betrayal trauma platforms including DomesticShelters.org
- Experienced in multi-jurisdictional litigation, international custody (UCCJEA & Hague Convention), and complex asset division
- Fluent in cross-cultural family dynamics, attachment trauma, and systemic bias mitigation
- Deceptive Sexuality & Trauma Treatment (DSTT) - Dr. Omar Minwalla
- Certified Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician - Dr. Ramani Durvasula
- Coercive Control training - Dr. Christine Cocchiola
- Certified Court-Appointed JDR & Circuit Domestic Violence & Trauma-Informed Mediator
- Certified Family Law Recommending Mediator
- Associate member of the American Bar Association Family Law Section
- Advanced practitioner of somatic and trauma-informed approaches integrating mind and body healing
- Contributor to leading national DV and betrayal trauma platforms including DomesticShelters.org
- Experienced in multi-jurisdictional litigation, international custody (UCCJEA & Hague Convention), and complex asset division
- Fluent in cross-cultural family dynamics, attachment trauma, and systemic bias mitigation
What I Offer:
I am judicially trained and certified as a Family Law and Domestic Violence mediator, with specialized forensic training from the American Psychological Association applications in forensic psychology. I hold advanced certifications and clinical experience in:
Our Signature Services
Offensive Litigation Strategy — Narrative development, expert witness preparation, coercive control & betrayal trauma documentation, forensic evaluation support
High-Conflict & International Custody Consulting — Navigating residency disputes, enforcement across jurisdictions, and inter-country complexities
DV & High-Conflict Mediation & Safety Planning — Court-appointed trauma-informed mediation, post-separation abuse anticipation and defense strategies
Trauma-Informed Coaching & Nervous System Regulation — Preparing clients mentally and emotionally for depositions, hearings, and court appearances
Strategic Family Law Advocacy — Tailored plans for complex custody, parenting coordination, co-parenting counseling, and protecting children’s wellbeing
Crisis & Risk Management — Safety planning, documenting abuse patterns, and immediate strategies to mitigate escalating conflicts
Empowerment, Clarity, and Resilience Amidst High-Conflict Family Court
Trauma-Informed Self-Presentation: Anxiety, overwhelm, and trauma responses are normal when facing weaponization by a narcissistic or manipulative ex. We equip you with regulation techniques and courtroom-ready skills so you remain clear, composed, and credible—no matter the pressure.
Understanding Court Psychology: We decode the dynamics of high-conflict opponents, counteract gaslighting, and anticipate tactics designed to discredit or destabilize. Our approach leverages the language of the court and the science of family systems.
Strategic Positioning for Custody & Safety: Whether you’re advocating for your child’s needs, countering false allegations, or defending against coercive control, our guidance ensures your priorities, boundaries, and evidence are presented with unwavering clarity.
Real-Time Coaching & Support: From finalizing mediation statements to rehearsal for your appearance, we are with you at every step—handling questions, role-playing scenarios, and providing immediate, compassionate counsel.
FCS (Family Court Services) Mediation Preparation
You’re facing one of the most critical moments in your family law journey: FCS Mediation isn’t just a required step—it’s your opportunity to shape the outcome, safeguard your child’s wellbeing, and protect your future. In high-conflict cases, traditional approaches aren’t enough. You need rigorous, trauma-informed strategic guidance tailored to the realities of adversarial tactics, courtroom psychology, and the invisible wounds wrought by betrayal, coercive control, and narcissistic abuse.
When my ex tried to twist the narrative, I was ready—with facts, with confidence, and with support.
I was ready!
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I entered FCS calm and prepared. I knew exactly what to say, how to respond to manipulation, and how to stay grounded in my truth.
I knew exactly what to say
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Start Your FCS Mediation Prep With an Advocate Who Understands High-Conflict Family Court—From Both Sides of the Table
The Edge You Deserve
- Custody and psychological evaluations—knowing what to expect, how to prepare, and how to protect your interests
- Mediation sessions—strategically navigating negotiation and conflict resolution
- Depositions and discovery—maximizing your credibility while deflecting attacks
- Strategic Communication—evaluating and guiding how you present yourself with clarity and confidence
- Motions practice, settlement conferences, separation of assets, and post-judgment—ensuring your legal protections are ironclad
- And if the matter proceeds to trial, I am there every step of the way—equipping you with tactical insight, emotional resilience, and unwavering support
I meticulously guide you through every critical juncture:
I don’t just walk alongside you—I will advocate aggressively for justice on your behalf with a mission-driven plan that integrates somatic healing, therapeutic insight, and strategic legal action uniquely tailored to your case.
From guidance on comprehensive documentation and psychological profiling of your adversary, to helping you go on the offensive with a compelling, evidence-based narrative—I craft a visual timeline with impact that leaves no doubt in the courtroom.
This combination of somatic, therapeutic, and strategic expertise is what sets me apart. I’m willing to step alongside you in battle, being your strategist, your trauma-informed guide, and a fierce advocate for you and your children.
Why Me?
I bring informed compassion and relentless strategic clarity so you can make confident decisions every step of the way.
How I Work With You
Throughout court proceedings and negotiations, we provide real-time support and coaching while coordinating with expert witnesses, clinicians, and legal professionals to form a cohesive team aligned to your goals. Our approach also emphasizes resilience, emotional regulation, and trauma-informed self-advocacy skills to help you stay grounded and empowered.
– Client
I never imagined having a strategist who understands the depth of trauma and the intricacies of family court.
She was my north star in the chaos.
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- Client
With her guidance, I was able to take control of the narrative, protect my children, and rebuild my life with strength.
I was able to take control of the narrative
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You don’t have to navigate this alone or unprepared.
Reach out today to schedule a confidential consultation and begin building your winning legal and healing strategy.
Your Next Step to Control and Peace
Credentials & Affiliations
Certified Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician (Dr. Ramani Durvasula)
Certified DSTT Practitioner (Dr. Omar Minwalla)
Certified Coercive Control Specialist (Dr. Christine Cocchiola)
Certified in intimate partner violence, DV, and deceptive sexuality trauma
Associate Member, American Bar Association, Family Law Section
Contributor, DomesticShelters.org and other national DV advocacy platforms
Experienced Somatic Practitioner integrating trauma-informed healing with legal advocacy
professionals I work with
Jenny Ward, MA is a nationally recognized certified co-parenting specialist, HCDC, mediator, child advocate, parent coordinator, and mindfulness educator with over a decade of experience supporting families through divorce, separation, and high-conflict transitions.
Jenny Ward
Stacy is an advocate, coach, and author specializing in relationship violence, stalking, and post-separation abuse. With a background in literary publishing, she has contributed to numerous works on trauma healing, emotional resilience, and mindful communication.
Stacy Stern
Professionals I frequently work with for collaborative co-parenting cases
